13 February 2009

Friday's Lesson for Men

In light of some recent personal events, it has occurred to me that men need to learn certain lessons about women. Their lack of knowledge when dealing with certain situations is down right unexcusable. The sheer fact of having opposite anatomy is no excuse not to dot your i's and cross your t's when it comes to your relationship.

Today's Situation: You're in a long distance relationship, you talk to your guy every night around the same time, he's going out with the guys.

There's no problem there right? Exactly. There's nothing wrong with your long distance guy going out with his buddy's on guy night.

However, let your girlfriend know what is going on. If you tell her you'll send her a text or give her a call later, make sure you do it!!!

Guys, I cannot stress enough how much difference a simple text or short call can make to quell the anger that will ultimately arise from your waiting girlfriend if you fail to do so. It's not hard work. Girls don't ask for a lot. We want your respect, and that simple call or text let's us know that you respect us by taking a moment away from your buddies to let us know you care. Just a bit of advice.


P.S. Guys, if your cell phone dies, it's not an excuse. Everyone has cell phones nowadays, so borrow your buddy's phone and let us know what's up. Oh, and I definitely emphasis doing so if your girlfriend has an anxiety disorder and tends to get wound up with worry easily.

1 comments:

My Fashionable Life said...

I totally agree with your stance on the phone call issue. Some men are too inconsiderate to remember to just take time out of their day and call. Actually, it's not even all men. A lot of my female friends don't call until the last minute or even not at all. It's one of my biggest pet peeves.

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