11 April 2009
So much has happened even in the couple days that I have lived down here now.
1. I got a full time job as a reservations agent in Niagara Falls. I should be excited about it because I love the hospitality industry, but it's in a cubicle in a basement with no windows.
2. I fell down the stairs, or rather slid down them yesterday at Piotr's parent's house. They were only 7 or 8 steps, but I hit my spine and tailbone on every step with the back of my head following after. I wasn't allowed to sleep for two hours because of the possibility of a concussion. No concussion, but one hell of a headache followed. I did wake up today, obviously.
3. Piotr and I took an Easter basket filled with kielbasa, babka, and other goodies to be blessed by the priest today. It's Polish tradition. Tomorrow we eat it and lots of other yummy goodness. I should really be a cook.4. I've mixed up the breakfast casserole my parents make every Easter ready to be cooked for breakfast tomorrow. Think 9 eggs, 3 cups of milk, 3 cups of cheese, 1lb of breakfast sausage sliced small all mixed together and poured over six slices of bread in a 9x13 casserole dish. Sits overnight. Cook in the morning for 45 min at 350F covered with tin foil, then another 10 with the foil off. Serve and Smacznego!
5. I feel like even though Piotr and I live together we're not really spending 'quality time' together so far. He took an extra shift at work during the Easter holiday weekend when he doesn't even have another day off. His buddy is in town for the weekend from Ottawa and is leaving tomorrow, and went to go hang out with him today even though we were supposed to dye some Easter eggs already and whatnot. I don't really care about him taking the time to hang out with his buddy at all, but this could have been planned out better so that he didn't have to break plans with me to do it. Because let me tell you, there's nothing I like better than dying eggs at 11:30pm when I have to get up early the next day. *sigh* So is life. I guess the reality of it is I'm just lonely. I'm here in a new city and don't know anyone. Hell, I'm not even in my own country yet again. I don't understand why every time he goes to hang out with his friends he can't invite me along once. "It's like a boys only kinda thing" doesn't really cut it with me. Every time I went out with my girlfriends in London or Burlington, he was always invited. I find this annoying. So that's it about my personal rants and what's been happening. Even though my bloggin class is done and I don't have to write in this anymore, I will continue to do so because it is really great to get stuff off of my chest.
BTW...my new neighbors smoke weed and try to cover it up with some nasty-smelling perfume, which makes it smell even worse. Disgusting.
01 April 2009
31 March 2009
My boyfriend's parent's house is a self-proclaimed Ikea museum and I'm shocked at how gorgeous Ikea can be. The euro-chic style that I love in a home is present all over their house and it always looks stunning! It's now his mom's mission to take me on a day trip to Ikea. Apparently all Polish homes should look like this or at least this is the impression I get. And apparently you need a whole day to go to Ikea. Sadly, my dad confirmed this statement on his very first trip to the store.
So now that Piotr and I are moving in together, his mom wants to decorate and I can't say I object. If it's Ikea and will look anything like their home, I'm all for it! Hopefully she'll finally take me to the store in Burlington and my Ikea-virginity will be gone!
26 March 2009
Our YouTube screen name is MIT2412. I know, original, but easily recognized!
We'd all appreciate the help, so let's get this started!
And I'm sorry but Taco doesnt' do it as good as Fred Astaire!
25 March 2009
This show got me thinking if I had ever turned my back on someone in need in my life and unfortunately there has been. When I was 18 I was working at Kohl's department store as a cashier in Florence, Kentucky. At one particular checkout, I was ringing up a mother, father, and their little girl who had to be able 7 or 8. She was also overweight. The little girl asked her father, "Why can't I get the other outfit." He repeatedly told her that she weighed too much and to just forget about it. The little girl hung her head like she was ashamed of being who she was. Yet, this wasn't the half of it. The girl said finally, "But I liked the other one."
At this her father looked at her in disgust and said, "Well maybe we'll tie some rope to you can the car so you can run all the way back home. Maybe then you'll lose some weight." That little girl looked crushed and I could tell she was embarrassed. I wanted to tell that father that he was the biggest jerk (or insert other word here) I have ever met, but I didn't want to lose my job. That father had no right to make his daughter feel that way about herself or say that in front of other people. It was emotional abuse. As a person who has been in a few emotional and mentally abusive relationships, I know how these kind of hurtful words can destroy your self esteem. I was that little girl at one point, but it was children who were the abusers, not my parents. My parents were the ones who were my rocks. If they had said the same kinds of hurtful things the kids at school had said to me, I would not be as outgoing as I am today. I regret not saying anything, even if it would have cost me my job. I wonder about that little girl this day, becasue I can never get her sad little face out of my mind.
The End: Radio
As someone who is personally involved in the radio scene, I care deeply about is going to happen to it in the future. I've recently started doing a radio show on UWO's station, CHRW 94.9, and I can't tell you how fulfilling it is to put a certain brand of music out there for public consumption. But sadly, the radio as well know it is disappearing. Radio is switching to podcasts, streaming broadcasts, myspace, and digitial radio. The trick here is for radio to adapt. I think this is the goal with all three mediums. CHRW already let's users listen to streaming live radio on their website and they have podcasts for shows available for download. So it doesn't matter to me that 10 million people are now listening to satellite radio, because it is still radio. It may be digital, but that is where everything is headed anyways. Radio has to adapt or it will be left behind with the telegraph and other extinct forms of mass media. Just to give you an example of how much is based on online representation now: I asked a DJ friend of mine in Toronto to send me a CD of one of his mixes so I could play it on my radio show. He said that he would just rather have people check out his website with downloadable mixes online because it offered more exposure. I was blown away, but this really makes you realize that podcasts and downloadable music content is the future.
The End: Print
I grew up reading the paper. I know I'm a few years older than most kids in my university classes, but I'm sure I'm not the only one who remembers sitting down at the kitchen table on Sunday mornings eating breakfast while my grandfather read the paper and told some jokes out of the comic section. When the news reports the death of big newspapers that have been going for over 150 years in the States and around, I get scared. There is something to be said for seeing a story in print. Recently the Ann Arbor News near Detroit announced it would stop printing daily papers. Instead, they would only print Thursday and Sunday editions; the rest would be online. Their reason for this was that everything was available online for free. And yes, this is true. I'm not the only one who has given up the paper for the most part for the instant fix of online news sites. It is easier to find the stories that you want and links that are similar to what you what to find out about. It is all about instant gratification. Newspapers just can't keep up. Newspapers are the only medium of the 'big three' that I have real concern over losing. Heck, even magazine readership is down. As more content is put online for our never-ending consumption, newspapers and print media suffer. Blogs offer commentary that can't fully be offered by traditional print media, and that is part of the appeal to the online community; anyone can become a famous author, even if it's writing about cupcakes, travel, or your dog.
Traditional print media makes this goal very hard to accomplish for the average Joe, because it requires more work than the majority of us are willing to put in. A blog simply requires you to babble at the least.
Actually, I'm not that concerned about print media disappearing, because I don't think it ever truly will. Along with radio, there is a need and want for it to succeed. It is instilled within the psyche of Americans and Canadians alike. Marconi sent the first radio wave here in Canada and the United States has had so much significant history made by the radio. It is a part of our history and the nostalgia it creates is not something the public wants to get rid of any time soon. Heck, who wants to read a novel online anyways, as The End puts it. It's much more convenient to flip through it at your own convenience.
The End: TV
I have no doubt TV will stand strong against its online competitors. Just because you can download a movie or watch a TV show online on streaming video now does not mean we will quit watching television. TV still has a bright future. If you don't think so, then tell me why Grey's Anatomy or 24 or Desperate Houswives has such a strong following, or why the Dancing with the Stars premier had the highest viewership in its history this month. Its true that internet sites such as Youtube offer new channels for media that can't be seen on the TV medium, but that will not dictate its disappearance. Vlogs are a compliment to TV in my opinion. Vlogs are online journals and tellings to various people via a webcam or video camera. This will not take away the need for the local news though. Although it may be in decline, I still make time to watch the local news every night so I can know what's going on in my community. The internet doesn't always foster the same connection that the TV can make to us. Even file-sharing doesn't fully cut it for everybody. Yes, it is great to just download movies, series, or individual shows, but it will never take away the experience of actually going to a movie or watching a sitcom at home with your boyfriend on the couch. I think television will definitely change along with radio and print, but they will never disappear.
Find the CBC videos here!
24 March 2009
When everything is ready to serve, place the mashed potatoes in a bowl and then pile the gulasz on top. Then add a dolop or two of sour cream and add the rest of the diced celery to the top of the sour cream. As a finishing touch, sprinkle some drops of Maggi seasoning on top for a very delicious flavor!
23 March 2009
20 March 2009
It's just putting in the two weeks is a big step for me. That's me leaving my roots here in London and taking the final step. But hell, after the episode that happened last night I'm ready to leave now!
19 March 2009
So why do I say he turned out to be a sociopath? Well by definition from dictionary.com, a sociopath is "–noun Psychiatry.
a person, as a psychopathic personality, whose behavior is antisocial and who lacks a sense of moral responsibility or social conscience."
This all started out when my former friend hung up on me last night for no reason. He took a joke I made, twisted it beyond definition into something cruel, and yelled at me for something I didn't say. I had a disgusting voicemail last night from him but I shrugged it off and went to bed. This morning I had a note from him on facebook calling me all sorts of names and saying all sorts of cruel things that played on my insecurities. So I wrote him back, wishing him a good life, but saying I didn't want anything to do with someone who'd treat me with such disrespect.
All this created a barrage of text messages sent to me since 10am this morning until 6:36pm tonight. Like an idiot I responded back to him until I just stopped reading and deleted all incoming messages. At one point I asked him why he was trying to hurt me so badly. His response was "I'm sorry, I was venting, and I feel really good right now." This is when I knew he was a sociopath because he kept sending more cruel text messages which made him feel good. That is the epitome of a sociopath: getting pleasure out of my emotional pain.
My cell phone company couldn't block him and he was sending me multimedia texts which cost me lots of money to receive. He sent me fifteen multimedia texts within one hour, so I phoned the non-emergency police number and made a report. All they had to do was phone him and they stopped. I took control and stopped the situation. I let the boyfriends and the date emotionally and mentally abuse me to the point that I developed such a bad anxiety disorder that I was having panic attacks every couple of days. I'm sorry, but not anymore.
18 March 2009
17 March 2009
Simple: Wake up, drink a beer, stand outside on Richmond or Huron street at 8:30am with a beer while wearing green, drink more beer, walk around to other drunk people's houses, drink a beer, hang around to 2:30pm and strip off some of your clothes to get ready to go to the bar, appear half naked, drink a beer, walk to the bus stop half naked, get off at Jack's or Barney's or Molly's, or your bar of choice, drink a beer, try to pick up a guy/girl, dance, drink another beer, trip over a chair, drink ten beers, hang out til 11:30pm, hail a cab while drinking a beer or try stumbling home while hiding the beer you're drinking, open your door, fall on the floor while trying to drink a beer, sleep.
16 March 2009
15 March 2009
13 March 2009
A video featuring the story can be found at the link provided below.
It's horrible to even think of anyone trying to commit suicide, but if you're that trying to end your life, why would you try to do it in front of hundreds of tourists who are going to call the police? Granted only three people have been known to go over the falls and lived, but all that attention is just drama.
10 March 2009
Here's my End of the School Year Checklist:
(X) Complete American Studies Essay (6-8pgs)
(X) Complete Tech. Writing Proposal
(X) Complete Tech. Writing White Paper
(X) Complete Tech. Writing Manual
(X) Hand in Killer Culture 5 Logs
(X) Complete Killer Culture Essay (1000 words)
() Complete Group Project for Blogging Class
() Complete Sexuality in the Media Essay (6-8pgs)
(X) Complete last 4 journal log for Sexuality in the Media
The majority of my professors hate this site and refuse to use it because it stores your essay, which is your own personal work. After you submit to the site though, it is available for the world to see....basically stealing your work. That is the argument that my professors have made. It's plaigarising your own work so it can catch plaigarism. Quite a paradox of stupidity if you ask me.
09 March 2009
06 March 2009
Yes, sun. No wonder the docs said I have a vitamin D deficiency! Yeah, no sun can do that to you. It's a little annoying to feel cold all the time and see nothing but clouds snow, freezing rain, and gloom from November to March. Today is a great day to head outside and catch some fleeting rays of golden goodness!
I know it's hard to believe, but under all that melting black snowy muck and decaying leaves there's green little plants planning their escape!
It's coming. I know it's not til April, but I love this holiday. It means no more winter and I love hard boiled eggs and all the Easter tradition!
4. SUGAR BUSHING
This may be a foreign concept to people not from Canada or the American Northeast, but it's truly one of the best things about Spring! Sugarbushing is the harvesting of fresh Canadian maple syrup, usually followed by a pancake breakfast. Trust me, if you've never tasted the pure stuff, you're missing out. I'll never go back to that corn syrup junk!
5. END OF CLASSES
Every student can agree with me when they look at the calendar around the beginning of April. Classes are winding up and exams are on the horizon, but that doesn't matter, because summer is almost here.
6. GETTING MORE ACTIVE
Even though I haven't gained any weight this winter, doesn't mean that I can't stand to lose a few pounds, and Spring is the perfect time to do it! There's more sun, more warmth, and just overall outsidey goodness.
7. ST. PATRICK'S DAY
Do you have a little Irish in you? I've got about 25%, but the rest is Pollack. But if you're not, who cares? Celebrate the day by throwing back a few green beers or Guinness at your local Irish pub (or Molly's if you're in London)!
8. SPRING CLEANING
This sounds a little crazy, I know, but think about it. Cleaning out and getting rid of all that clutter you've been storing up all winter long will clear your head, make you feel uber productive, reduce anxiety, and give you a nice clean space! If you don't have any clutter to clean out of your room, translate it to your life and that deadbeat boyfriend or girlfriend you've been keeping around for the hell of it.
9. SPRING STORMS
These are the best Spring occurrences if you enjoy the natural theatrics of mother nature unless you live in a basement apartment that likes to collect water in the occasional spot. What's not to love about the beauty of a flash of lightning or thunder that wakes you up three hours before your alarm goes off? And who can forget the dramatic suspense that tornado watches produce! Ahh, spring!
AND MY FAVORITE THING ABOUT SPRING...........
10. GETTING TWITTERPATED!
What? I know you're thinking I've fallen off the deepend and am just making up words, but think back to your childhood and watching Bambi. Thumper says that falling in love is becoming twitterpated and almost all animals shack up during the spring, so why can't we? If you're already attached, do something to let your partner know you appreciate them. Go on a trip, go out to dinner, or just hang around your couch together. Spring means that love is in the air! Awww, makes me think of Piotr. <3>
04 March 2009
1. Today marks the 7th month that Piotr and I have been together.
I always say, "Where has the time gone?" I actually mean it, and wonder how fast our time together will go once we move into together. Will it progress slowly or continue at its current pace? Will we take each other for granted or be able to get along as well as we do now. These are all issues that I've been trying to reconcile in my head, but it makes me nervous. That's why I'm trying to keep the most positive outlook possible.
2. Today also marks the five week marker when I will move to St. Catharines.
We have an apartment all set up, so I'm starting to relax a little bit. We officially get the apartment near Penn Center in St. Kitts on April 1st, even though I don't finish school til the 9th. I only have one final exam in American Studies (cliche I know), so it will be okay. The other thing I have to worry about is finding a job. I've been applying to some hotels in the area and I actually have an interview at the Crown Plaza Hotel in Niagara Falls next Tuesday for a reservations agent. The two and a half years I've worked as a front desk clerk comes in handy in Niagara. Wish me luck!
03 March 2009
So it works like this: It happens when the day and the month are both the square root of the last two digits of the year.
Since today is 03/03/09, three is the square root of 9, and works. The next Square Root Day will be April 4, 2016.
Although this is a ficticious holiday, some people are actually taking it seriously! A math teacher in California is actually going to give $339 USD to the person who puts on the best Square Root Day celebration. I'm assuming he's going to be the judge.
An article about the prize can be found here
02 March 2009
There is a small section of fresh veggies, but that's not the reason to visit this particular market. It's a very small store, but they have a variety of top notch, fine cheeses, maple syrups, tomato sauces, etc. Chef Les also operates out the this market and he makes delicous entrees that are available to be made fresh, pick up, or you can look in the freezer and take home one of his handmade frozen dishes. You can even ask Chef Les to make pies for you on order. MMMMM! In my opinion, the best part of this market is the butcher. I can't quite recall his first name, but he is super sweet, friendly, and a bit of a looker. He cuts all his meat fresh, and it is all from local sources. He's told me he actually goes out to visit his suppliers to make sure they 'meat' his standards. That is dedication to me.
Please go and check this market out if you live in the North London area. You won't be disappointed.
Sullivan's Old North Market
462 Cheapside St.
01 March 2009
Wesch discusses the phenomena of Youtube and user uploaded video versus the broadcasting of major television networks. The sheer amount of video is shocking. Over 200,000 videos are uploaded to Youtube each day and is mostly represented by three minute movies. Wesch says that most of these videos are only meant to have viewership of 100 people or less. Youtube opens up new forms of expression that are unprescendented in our time. A cultural blurp in Moldova can spread throughout the globe and make a kid in New Jersey famous or broadcast the fictional or real drama of a teenage girl (aka lonelygirl15) into a soap opera made for the unquenchable thirst of the internet consumer.
User-generated content has the ability to reach millions of people within a short time period and can generate exponential amounts of new media. These videos link space and time of the world audience. This community of new media generators are what Wesch calls "networked individualism." As we get cut off from a community based on location, the community based on peer-to-peer community based on internet connectivity is possible through mediums such as YouTube. This is a great tool for people who are deathly shy or afraid of normal social interaction. Sitting behind a camera can make these individuals less afraid of saying things they wouldn't normally say in public. It gives the individual a way of expressing themselves without constraints, and yet there are still the cultural constraints against certain forms of self-expression. Deep connection may be possible on YouTube, but I still think that it is somewhat superficial, that it is not real. In reality, Youtube is not really reality, but a distraction from your location to venture out into the unknown world. Youtube is a great way to reconnect oneself to a community and humanity, but you still have to be careful not to lose sight of your actual physical being and where you really are.
25 February 2009
I made meatloaf last night and it turned out so well, I thought I'd jot down the recipe on here:
1 lb. ground beef
1 pkg lipton onion soup mix
1 cup plain breadcrumbs
2/3 cup traditional italian tomato sauce
Combine all the ingredients together and place into a non-greased baking pan. Mold it into a loaf shape and bake at 325 for 45-60min depending on your oven. I always look at the recipe on the Lipton's Soup box, but I change it around a bit to meet my needs. For instance, they use ketchup and I use tomato sauce. I think it just tastes better that way.
For instance, they're building Dubailand, which will be twice the size of Walt Disney World in Florida, and they're building the world's largest and busiest international airport. When is enough enough? Couldn't all the Sheik's money be used to help the poor people of Africa or help solve world diseases that can be eradicated? It just seems like a frivilus waste of money.
Here's a fun fact too: There are more construction workers in Dubai than citizens.
For more on Dubai and it's extreme architecture, click: here
1. The Miracle on the Hudson Crash
2. The Buffalo, NY crash
3. The Amsterdam crash
Actually, the site planecrashinfo.com states that there have actually been Seven crashes since the beginning of the year.....eight counting today's.
And people wonder why some individuals have a fear of flying. Granted, two of these crashes had either no loss of life (Hudson) or limited loss of life (Amsterdam), but they're still crashes. I don't want to hear any laughter next time I fly to Poland and I'm clutching the arm rest.
20 February 2009
Piotr and I were looking at a high-end apartment building (which was a little too pricey for us in the long run), and I started talking to the girl who was showing us around. Turns out it was her second job.
Turns out this girl, Deb Pearce, is the morning show host on Proud FM in Toronto! I can't believe I met somebody like that in a completely random setting!
I've never met a DJ who does the big morning show before. I was really shocked. Well, I started talking to her about my desire to get into the radio industry, and she gave me her card and told me to email her with any questions. She was really nice and gave me some great pointers. It just goes to show you that good things happen when you least expect them to.
13 February 2009
Today's Situation: You're in a long distance relationship, you talk to your guy every night around the same time, he's going out with the guys.
There's no problem there right? Exactly. There's nothing wrong with your long distance guy going out with his buddy's on guy night.
However, let your girlfriend know what is going on. If you tell her you'll send her a text or give her a call later, make sure you do it!!!
Guys, I cannot stress enough how much difference a simple text or short call can make to quell the anger that will ultimately arise from your waiting girlfriend if you fail to do so. It's not hard work. Girls don't ask for a lot. We want your respect, and that simple call or text let's us know that you respect us by taking a moment away from your buddies to let us know you care. Just a bit of advice.
P.S. Guys, if your cell phone dies, it's not an excuse. Everyone has cell phones nowadays, so borrow your buddy's phone and let us know what's up. Oh, and I definitely emphasis doing so if your girlfriend has an anxiety disorder and tends to get wound up with worry easily.
11 February 2009
There are reasons when I no longer attend raves, or for the culturally ignorant: all night dance parties usually accented by techno dance music, drugs, and clandestine locales, ( the clandestine part has gone out the window for the most part since the late 90's/early 2000's). Aside from the drugs and the shady people, the candy kids were a big part. I don't mean to sound jaded, but candy or kandi kids are the worst thing to happen to fashion since the male thong. Kandi kids wear children's bead bracelts in abundance, suck on pacifiers, wear fuzzy things, and just dress in a random hodgepodge of misplaced trash. I think these pictures are evidence enough to justify my claims.
10 February 2009
The consequences that this has however, will mean that I will be moving to St. Catharines for sure and living with Piotr for May 1, 2009. So I have a little less than three months left in London. Yay I suppose, but I will miss some aspects about this place. I just hope I can get a job !!
In Cincinnati my best friends and I went to Mad Frog Bar on Monday nights and danced salsa to a GREAT live latino band called Tropicoso:
Another good exercise routine is running, which is obvious, but I don't mean on the boring treadmill. I'm talking about taking my dog to Springbank park in the warm air and just booking it up and down the trails by the river. It leaves your head so clear and your body refreshed. I was rewarded by exercising there today as well, because I saw four young does across the Thames sipping water on the bank. It was a really nice site and makes you appreciate trails like Springbank's where you can come in close proximity with nature while not disturbing it for the most part. The geese are another issue. They're just plain annoying. And I didn't know it until today that they hiss at you. It was rather amusing!
09 February 2009
08 February 2009
I also checked out these other companies, and these are the ones I liked the best, in order:
4. Virgin Mobile
I have unique needs because I talk to the US all the time. I think that Bell's plan is the best, but I'll see. I just don't want to get ripped off. Grrrr.
04 February 2009
Blogging is a great way to put your ideas out there for the whole world to see. I think this is amazing! As a society, we've come into this ago of instant communication so fast, and it's gone from days of newspapers to telephones to internet in such a short amount of time. Did you know there are about 120,000 new blogs created each day? That's incredible to think about! That number is higher than the population of the whole county I'm from in Kentucky!
No longer do we have to simply rely on mail to communicate with our neighbors on the other side of the globe! And it's not just the English-speaking community that is represented in this blog fever! Japanese is actually the number one language that is represented in posted blogs, coming in at 37% of all blogs. English only comes in second place, followed by Chinese, Italian, and Farsi. This really goes to show that we are all members of the world community and makes it seem just a little bit smaller!
Another surprising thing I learned from the article was the way in which certain blogs become more popular than others. Apparently, tags and hyperlinks that appear on websites will draw in enormous amounts of readers. The tags or categories are marked as descriptors so that other people who search for the same category will stumble across your blog and read it. It really is an ingenious idea when you think about it. It is shameless self-promotion simply by giving your blog entry or entire blog a category. I don't think there's any shame in that. =) So blogging is the future, and I'm now on board for the ride.